Dating may seem imposible,
especially if you 're not used to putting yourself out there.
It's scary when you have to worry about putting your heart on the line.
Not only that, but it's a lot of hard work and time investment.
We 've discovered that even though you're actively dating,
you're still on the search for a meaningful connection with someone.
Here are five ways to find true love if you 're an introvert and hate dating.
One, go to events and places that reflect your favorite hobbies and interests.
Forget hitting the bar or club to meet people
if that's not where you feel like you can be your natural self.
Meeting new people that you can potentially get to know over time
requires a certain sense of self confidence.
By going to events and places that harbor your hobbies and interests,
it'll be easier for you to strike up conversations based on similarities,
alleviating some of the stress introverts faces
when it comes to small talk.
Two, be prepared to go through trial-and-error.
Love is in a fairy tale.
And while you may hate superficial aspect of dating,
you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times
or breaking someone else's.
There's always a lesson to be learned in the world of dating.
For instance, you might be used to internalizing your thoughts
and feelings as an introvert.
But while dating,
you'll learn to get better at communicating with your partner.
And even thought that might be difficlut at times,
it isn't impossible.
Three, have honest conversations.
Don't be afraid to show who you are
right from the beginning.
As an introvert,
you value authenticity and depth anyway
If you want to skip out on trying to impress others,
be honest,
have the diffcult conversations
ask them if they know where the both of you are headed,
see if two of you actually have chemistry,
but also communicate that you're willing to make things work.
If you're serious about dating,
you shoudn't have to worry avout waiting for a certain amount of time to pass,
before reaponding back to text messages
or coming off desperate or clingy.
To like someone is to still choose to be with them,
even on their worst days.
Four, only make tome for people you're really interested in.
Don't date someone because they seem impressive on paper,
or if there's someone your parents and friends will approve of.
Ask only make time to meet up with people
who you truely believe youare compatible with.
At the end of the day,
you 're the one dating that person,
not someone else.
As an introvert,
you most likely don't like creating conflict
and reject those you don't think can have a relationship with.
It'll help you be one step closer to finding the right match.
Additionally, don't settle just because you're afraid to be alone.
Five, keep an open mind.
The includes dating extroverts who operate in different way,
who's your opposite can't work out.
As long as you and your partner respect each other's boundaries,
there's no real reason as to why things can't work out,
even if misunderstandings may arise from time to time.
That's normal in any relationship.
Are you an introvert?
What helps you in the realm of dating?
Feel free to share in the comments below.